The Achiever Healing Program

Your armor of achievement has kept you safe. Now it's keeping you lonely.

What Your Assessment Revealed

Your Pattern

You scored high in career (7+) but low in relationships (4 or below). Success is your safety mechanism. You've learned that performance equals worth, but intimacy equals danger.

What This Means

You're exhausted from performing. Behind the success is a person who doesn't believe they're loveable just as they are. Achievement is your armor against vulnerability.

Your Path Forward

Learning to be seen without performing. Discovering your worth beyond productivity. Building genuine connections where you're valued for who you are, not what you do.

Your 12-Week Achiever Healing Path

Weeks 1-3: Slowing Down

  • Daily 10-minute "do nothing" practice
  • Tracking perfectionist thoughts
  • Learning to receive without earning

Weeks 4-6: Feeling Beneath Success

  • Identifying emotions you avoid through work
  • Vulnerability micro-doses
  • Sharing one imperfection daily

Weeks 7-9: Authentic Connection

  • Showing up without achievements
  • Asking for help practice
  • Being seen in process, not just results

Weeks 10-12: Integration

  • Balanced achievement from wholeness
  • Success WITH connection
  • Leadership from authenticity

Start Today With These 3 Actions

  1. The Pause Practice: Before starting any task, pause for 30 seconds. Ask: "Am I doing this to feel worthy, or because it matters?"
  2. Imperfect Share: Tell someone about a mistake you made today. Notice their response isn't rejection.
  3. Receive Practice: Accept one compliment today without deflecting, minimizing, or immediately reciprocating.

Ready to Remove the Armor?

The Achiever Healing intensive includes:

  • Weekly vulnerability training sessions
  • Somatic practices to feel beneath the doing
  • Community of recovering achievers
  • Tools to maintain success WITHOUT sacrifice

Recommended: Deep Transformation Program ($497/month)

Achiever patterns need intensive support to break through decades of armor

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